Where are the guys??

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Ladies, every one of us might have had the feeling when we adore certain things in life knowing that we will never be able to have it.  Let’s say, like the hot geography teacher in school who is way out of your league or the million dollar diamond ring that you always wanted to be proposed with (for which you need to marry someone like Jay-Z) or The Mouawad’s 1001 nights purse that makes your heart skip a beat whenever you see it.  Yes, there are things that we simply love but are just out of reach. We accept the hard reality of life and move on.  We compromise and settle down. But now, there’s something new to worry about –‘The guys’!!! 

If you just go to Thamel or Pokhara or any happening places in the town, you will be heart broken by the fact that the number of good guys you see is almost NIL. By good guys, I am referring to guys who are ridiculously good looking, irresistibly charming, and in the scale of 8 or more.  P.S. I am not at all talking about people with inner beauty or a good heart.  One of my girl-friend who recently visited Goa said to me that the only guys she met were the ones who carried stick (coz they were like 1000 years old). Isn’t that terrifying?? When I was 18, there were so many good looking ‘Dai’s’ in our schools or in the neighborhood.   But now, if u look around, you will see how scarce they have become.  If you are lucky and able to track a few of them, please reconfirm (!!) coz they are either married or in a “serious” relationships.  (By serious, I mean their girlfriends are so creepy and murderous that if they find out the slightest clue that you are into her guy, they are going to come to you with their murder weapon!! )

The other nerve wrecking fact about finding the ideal guy is the intense competition. The competition that’s from the other girls and the other guys (Yes, the 80’s are actually over)!! If you find a guy who is handsome, has fluoridated teeth, smells great, is actually sensitive and caring then, chances are that he might be interested in your brother and not you.  How I loved Neil Patrick Harris (Barney/ How I met your mother fame) before I knew that he was happily gay and married!! Great guys like Jim Parsons (Sheldon Cooper/ Bing Gang Theory fame) and Ricky Martin who have announced their sexual orientation is just too hard to bear. I can correlate this feeling with the joy of finding that ‘perfect dress with the perfect design and colors’ after hours of shopping, which you are eager to try on and wear to the party until you are told that the store don’t have it in your size!!

Yes, its terrible coz Darwin’s law of Survival applies to finding the perfect guy as well.  The only thing you can do is have a little bit of lizard intuition and start believing. Who knows, the Bradley Cooper of your life is waiting just a door away.

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